{"id":270,"date":"2023-08-07T19:39:19","date_gmt":"2023-08-08T00:39:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=270"},"modified":"2023-08-16T17:44:30","modified_gmt":"2023-08-16T22:44:30","slug":"narcissistic-traits","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=270","title":{"rendered":"Narcissistic Traits (Malignant Narcissist)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>These are traits that I&#8217;ve seen in Tara, not all narcissists have all traits as some are more specific to sex.  Men tend to have 1 where women won&#8217;t, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li> Grandiose sense of Self-Importance:  In Tara this is seen by her constantly being late, hurried, busy, etc.   This plays into their arrogance, fulfillment, control, self-importance, grand entrance, &#8220;their time&#8221; is valuable and not yours and their entitlement as well.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Preoccupation with fantasies, beauty and love &#8211; in her case.  Vanity is a huge problem with Tara.  She spent 2 days getting ready for the Judas Priest concert, dying her hair, finding just the right clothes that didn&#8217;t make her look fat, show wrinkles (age) etc.  In fact if you post pictures of her online without &#8220;glam filters&#8221; she will go ballistic &#8211; and I&#8217;ve seen her block people over it on social media.  She also has a problem with her partners, I say this in hindsight, she wants someone that she can hold out as &#8216;just the right amount of ugly&#8217; to show her (fake) compassion and still make her look good to the crowd.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Belief that she is special and can only be understood by special people.  The moment you question her, don&#8217;t agree with her, or ask something of her she does not agree with; you get assaulted and eventually blocked (ask any of her blocked friends; you can find a lot of them on my FaceBook page).   Everything to her is either agree or you disagree with her and its an argument.  Her ex-friends and I can tell you that this is Normal Operating Procedure for her.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Need for excessive admiration (see videos I&#8217;ve posted on YouTube).  Tara demands you appreciate every little thing she does, <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/PjbiEPIPv3k\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">or you are disrespecting her<\/a>.  Her telling the truth to me on the porch resulted in her stating over and over &#8220;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/ZHCEYuSLFUc\" target=\"_blank\">I want to be appreciated for my honesty<\/a>.&#8221;  See also the video of how she <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/Ge5vRAaZLc8\" target=\"_blank\">demands to be treated<\/a>, outside the dog cage.  <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sense of Entitlement.  I&#8217;ve personally not noted this, but others have.  I noticed that she must have &#8220;this&#8221; food, or &#8220;That&#8221; vitamin.  And restaurants simply must make her food this way, or that way, with this ingredient or such.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Exploitive behavior.  I&#8217;ve seen this in her expectation of others to meet her demands on things.  I personally don&#8217;t think this is a strong trait in her except how it is combined with others.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lack of Empathy &#8211; I&#8217;ve got <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/ZHCEYuSLFUc\" target=\"_blank\">video<\/a> (She admits my feelings don&#8217;t matter) after video of that.  For instance I told her directly do not pose nude for Richard Forsythe to take pictures of you; and <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/vZ58KOKgoTE\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">she did it <\/a>without a care for our marriage vows or my feelings on the subject; not to mention the 26 times she has slept with other men while we were married. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Envy.  Tara constantly uses sexual manipulation to invoke jealousy and envy both.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Being Right &amp; Winning &amp; Having the last word.  Tara must be &#8216;right&#8217; about anything.  If she said the sky is purple, then its purple or you get blocked.  She must always have the last word, a pet peeve of mine <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/ynBDvddkMig\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">(see video)<\/a>.  And she must &#8220;win the argument&#8221; at whatever the cost.  <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Never guilty of anything.  She will avoid &#8220;guilt&#8221; at every turn.  Even when cornered she will then blame it on me, for years of abuse that rewired her brain.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/how-to-recognize-a-malignant-narcissist-4164528\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/how-to-recognize-a-malignant-narcissist-4164528\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Malignant Narcissist<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\" id=\"mntl-sc-block_1-0-31\">\n<li><strong>Preoccupied with fantasies about beauty<\/strong>, brilliance, success, and power.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Unable to handle criticism<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Tendency to lash out if they feel slighted<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Likely to take advantage of others to get what they want<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Overly concerned about their appearance<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Have an expectation of being treated as superior.<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Lack of empathy for others<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/what-is-a-god-complex-7112056\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Inflated sense of self <\/a>and inability to self-regulate<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Have no remorse for hurting others and no interest in apologizing unless it benefits them<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Have an attitude of deserving the best of everything<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Tendency to monopolize conversations and\/or mistreat those who they perceive as inferior<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hidden insecurity and a weak sense of self<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Tendency to blame others for their own bad behavior<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_1-0-33\">Additional signs of malignant narcissism can include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\" id=\"mntl-sc-block_1-0-35\">\n<li><strong>Seeing the world in black-and-white terms, including seeing others as either friend or foe<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Seeking to win at all costs, leaving a great amount of pain, frustration, and even heartache in their wake; can include &#8220;Having the last word&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Not caring about the pain they cause others\u2014or maybe even enjoying it and experiencing it as empowering<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Doing what it takes to protect themselves from loss, inconvenience, or failing to get what they want in any situation<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"The most common test for narcissism\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/gPObIhdnxB8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>These are traits that I&#8217;ve seen in Tara, not all narcissists have all traits as some are more specific to sex. Men tend to have 1 where women won&#8217;t, etc. Malignant Narcissist Additional signs of malignant narcissism can include:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":211,"menu_order":1,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-270","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/270","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=270"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/270\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":553,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/270\/revisions\/553"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/211"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=270"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}