{"id":330,"date":"2023-08-09T01:24:37","date_gmt":"2023-08-09T06:24:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=330"},"modified":"2023-08-16T21:42:43","modified_gmt":"2023-08-17T02:42:43","slug":"false-claims-of-abuse-text-messages","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=330","title":{"rendered":"False claims of abuse &#8211; Text Messages"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Tara McFadden complained endlessly to her online enablers that I abused her, didn&#8217;t support her, never showed her I loved her, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All of these claims are bullshit lies.  Her excuse in the face of evidence like on this page will be &#8220;Oh, he only did it verbally&#8221; and or &#8220;Oh, he only posted the &#8216;love bombing&#8217; texts that make him look good&#8221; etc.  Okay, no problem &#8211; my email is public and she knows it.  Screen shot all my ugly, nasty texts and send them &#8211; I will be more than happy to post them all (and we will wait till hell freezes over too).  I sadly loved this women with everything I had, and look what it got me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/you-hate-me-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-472\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/you-hate-me-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/you-hate-me-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/you-hate-me-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/you-hate-me.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is her false (gaslighting) claim that I hated her, of course we know it is false because (see below, sample) there is no evidence to support it, in fact the evidence shows she is <strong>lying<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-1-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-331\" style=\"width:366px;height:812px\" width=\"366\" height=\"812\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-1-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-1-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-1.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 366px) 100vw, 366px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This was back when she had me all to herself and she was okay with sex when she got what she wanted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"449\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-2-449x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-332\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-2-449x1024.jpg 449w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-2-131x300.jpg 131w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-2-673x1536.jpg 673w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-2.jpg 699w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 449px) 100vw, 449px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is where she wanted me to tell her I still love her even with her weight gain &#8211; its good, I got ya, I still love ya (as we can see).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-3-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-3-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-3-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-3-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-3.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Still waiting to see all that &#8220;hate&#8221; and &#8220;abuse&#8221; &#8212;  checks the thermostat in hell.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-4-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-334\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-4-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-4-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-4-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-4.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-5-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-335\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-5-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-5-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-5-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-5.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>There again (June 2022) confirming that I&#8217;m okay with her showing her age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-6-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-6-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-6-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-6-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-6.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember I never told her &#8220;Thanks&#8221; for anything she did (I always did, but I didn&#8217;t say it 2 times this time, or 145 next time)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-7-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-337\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-7-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-7-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-7-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-7.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-16-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-342\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-16-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-16-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-16-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-16.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember, I never supported her in her little business adventure (by saying No, its okay to skip our &#8216;date night&#8217; go do your thing) &#8211; (Photo 1 from June \/ Photo 2 from November)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-10-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-340\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-10-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-10-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-10-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-her-new-bf-10.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-the-new-bf-11-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-341\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-the-new-bf-11-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-the-new-bf-11-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-the-new-bf-11-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/before-the-new-bf-11.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember I would punch her in the face, and verbally abuse her for the smallest mistake; like leaving a bag of used cat litter in my floor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Screenshot_20230809-174250_Messages-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-387\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Screenshot_20230809-174250_Messages-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Screenshot_20230809-174250_Messages-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Screenshot_20230809-174250_Messages-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Screenshot_20230809-174250_Messages.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is where we made the agreement that we like having each other around and we promised to do intimate things (not just sex) at least once a week.<br>It didn&#8217;t take long for her to violate that agreement (when Scotty returned home) and I refused to agree to her demand to evict him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"461\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/trauma-bond-sex-divorce-2-461x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-569\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/trauma-bond-sex-divorce-2-461x1024.jpg 461w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/trauma-bond-sex-divorce-2-135x300.jpg 135w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/trauma-bond-sex-divorce-2-691x1536.jpg 691w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/trauma-bond-sex-divorce-2.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 461px) 100vw, 461px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>And these are just a small sampling (that are not too risky to post online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;ve been gaslighted about the abuse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"My Dark Triad exwife - gaslighting about abuse\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/vjyr6OzFdBk?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; 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