{"id":470,"date":"2023-08-09T20:56:17","date_gmt":"2023-08-10T01:56:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=470"},"modified":"2024-03-21T15:23:53","modified_gmt":"2024-03-21T20:23:53","slug":"her-new-victim","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=470","title":{"rendered":"Her new Victim"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I&#8217;ve been meaning to edit this when I have time; I have not had a lot of time to spend on &#8216;her&#8217; anymore, but will drop a note that the old information will be retained (for historical purposes only).  I will add all the information I&#8217;ve found out about her new husband (she had been grooming for the past 2 years or so).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Old information for historical purposes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Around September of 2022 Tara McFadden found her new victim and began grooming them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In these videos Tara McFadden goes through the steps to admit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>She is delusional, and does not see the same world we do<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She then begins the &#8220;mirroring&#8221; phase where she adopts the habits, traits, likes, and dislikes of the new victim (music, dress, talking, phrases, etc.)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Once this is done they start the love bombing, this in part gets you to reveal your dark secrets they will later use against you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They then create \/ enforce the &#8220;Shared Fantasy&#8221; of the great life you will have together with them.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Then they continue the love bombing until they know they have you hooked, by introducing small measures of devaluation into the relationship.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Next of course is the true devaluation stage (see <a href=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=286\" title=\"\">What is a Narcissist<\/a>).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>In any case I&#8217;ve discovered that the Family she cleaned for was a temporary place for her to stay, right now her new victim is Dana Fletcher in Bolder Colorado (see Breadcrumbing &amp; Triangulation) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"My dark triad ex-wife and her new victim\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QbD_PS9JQ0I?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been meaning to edit this when I have time; I have not had a lot of time to spend on &#8216;her&#8217; anymore, but will drop a note that the old information will be retained (for historical purposes only). I will add all the information I&#8217;ve found out about her new husband (she had been [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":12,"menu_order":14,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-470","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/470","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=470"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/470\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1871,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/470\/revisions\/1871"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/12"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=470"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}