{"id":486,"date":"2023-08-09T21:15:43","date_gmt":"2023-08-10T02:15:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=486"},"modified":"2023-08-09T21:15:50","modified_gmt":"2023-08-10T02:15:50","slug":"the-narcissist-calling-me-the-narcissist","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=486","title":{"rendered":"The Narcissist calling me the Narcissist"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The background here is simple.  Around 2015 Tara McFadden started calling me a Narcissist.  Until July 5th of 2023 I never paid attention to that or looked it up even (all I knew up to that point was they were Vain to the extreme (which is Tara to a T)).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In any case with the divorce agreed to so easily, I was in shock so I went for professional help &#8211; and guess what I discovered.  I had been abused by a Malignant Narcissist (A Dark Triad Narcissist) &#8211; Tara Lee McFadden &#8211; for 36 years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My Dr.&#8217;s actually watched the video she claims she showed to her Dr.&#8217;s and they confirmed that she is the problem; that does not say I have escaped unharmed, I&#8217;ve got a slew of them from it, including narcissistic co-dependency (inflamed narcissistic tendencies).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"My dark triad exwife - The Narcissist Calling me the Narcissist\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/dEAJkuiej0s?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The background here is simple. 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