{"id":533,"date":"2023-08-14T17:53:17","date_gmt":"2023-08-14T22:53:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=533"},"modified":"2023-09-13T06:40:50","modified_gmt":"2023-09-13T11:40:50","slug":"what-would-it-take-to-let-her-come-back","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?page_id=533","title":{"rendered":"What would it take to let her come back"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is an interesting exercise to see what it would take to let her come back.  Of course the reality of it is, knowing them as you know them now what rules would you put in place; and of course they would never accept those rules &#8211; so the exercise is complete and you know now that they would never actually work on trying to fix the relationship, just to abuse you again.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This was an exercise to show the futility of trying to rekindle the relationship, now that you know who  and what they are.  They will never change, there is no cure, there is no &#8216;getting better&#8217; and as these videos show there is no reaching them, they justify everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"To my Dark Triad Ex-Wife - Just a reminder &quot;we are done&quot;\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Ty6LS7-2I1I?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">August 9th 2023<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"What would it take to try the relationship again\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/2tz5FR21stU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">August 14th, 2023<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is an interesting exercise to see what it would take to let her come back. 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