{"id":1678,"date":"2023-09-30T11:58:53","date_gmt":"2023-09-30T16:58:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?p=1678"},"modified":"2023-09-30T23:04:19","modified_gmt":"2023-10-01T04:04:19","slug":"a-history-of-affairs-2012-attempt-to-divorce-her","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?p=1678","title":{"rendered":"A history of Affairs &#8211; 2012 attempt to divorce her"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Tara McFadden runs this false narrative that she is changed \/ changing, getting better, healing, etc.  This is impossible for a narcissist to do this.  They are hardwired this way.  She also runs the false narrative that she didn&#8217;t do these things to cause me to act like I did (do).  This is another bold-faced lie.  In all 36 years of our marriage, as proven by these posts from 11 years ago; she has never changed because she can&#8217;t.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So today a memory popped on FaceBook:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/tara-4-690x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1679\" style=\"width:850px;height:1261px\" width=\"850\" height=\"1261\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/tara-4-690x1024.jpg 690w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/tara-4-202x300.jpg 202w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/tara-4-768x1140.jpg 768w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/tara-4.jpg 1012w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Tara McFadden was online telling her friends that I abused her all the time.  As the videos &amp; text messages here show, Tara McFadden is delusional and NO abuse happened.<br>She was also trying to have an affair with some guy, and because she had not got him under the spell yet, she recycled me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"695\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/tara-3-1024x695.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1680\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/tara-3-1024x695.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/tara-3-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/tara-3-768x521.jpg 768w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/tara-3.jpg 1040w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Tara McFadden runs this false narrative that I am the one that came crawling back to her every time one of her affairs ended, because she is stupid and after they get tired of fucking her they dump her &#8211; and she would crawl back to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was dumb enough to love her, in fact still do &#8211; I&#8217;m an empath and can&#8217;t stop, it would destroy me to even try and I will not kill that inside of me which is part of my core &#8211; I just have to admit that I cannot and will not let her back in my life (thus this website and my &#8220;scorched earth&#8221; policy towards her).  And, in the future I will be well guarded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In any case in 2012 I tried to divorce her, and again in 2015 &#8211; this time I figured out what a Narcissist is and did it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"740\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/divorce-1024x740.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1689\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/divorce-1024x740.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/divorce-300x217.jpg 300w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/divorce-768x555.jpg 768w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/divorce.jpg 1088w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Its a whole different thing, when your friends validate things you have proof of VS those who validate your naked claim.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tara McFadden runs this false narrative that she is changed \/ changing, getting better, healing, etc. This is impossible for a narcissist to do this. They are hardwired this way. She also runs the false narrative that she didn&#8217;t do these things to cause me to act like I did (do). This is another bold-faced [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1678","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1678","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1678"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1678\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1691,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1678\/revisions\/1691"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1678"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1678"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1678"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}