{"id":1730,"date":"2023-10-14T15:41:12","date_gmt":"2023-10-14T20:41:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?p=1730"},"modified":"2023-10-14T15:48:44","modified_gmt":"2023-10-14T20:48:44","slug":"the-court-of-public-opinion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?p=1730","title":{"rendered":"The Court of Public Opinion"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My ex has beat the shit out of me in the court of public opinion (facebook &amp; such) for at least 11 years now. She has been on there for years (her own words) telling everyone I abused her, its all a lie and I have video to prove it &#8211; but in the court of public opinion, and this is quoting a few of them &#8220;I won&#8217;t watch that video its a trick&#8221; or other such bullshit. Then a litany of bleeding-heart bullshit that she has people duped about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I know, nothing I can do about stupid.<br>However.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In a court of law opinion does not matter unless you are an expert.<br>I threw a monkey wrench into the divorce for a reason.<br>What matters is that video, and text messages. Since it has been established that she planned to murder me, I will force a mental evaluation and they will watch all that video evidence.  I&#8217;ve already had 6 or 8 professionals watch it, not including the ones with the police department.  Every one of them have stated she is a Sociopath (Narcissist).  Add in the murder thing and that makes her a danger.  Lets ignore all that other criminal stuff I know about, so she is a continuing danger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her claim is that I triggered her to &#8220;act like a narcissist on video because it is a trauma response&#8221; and that is total bullshit. A trauma response is what you see me do in the video; lashing out, etc. A narcissist (Sociopath) is always a narcissist, you can&#8217;t push anyone to act like that, its hardwired. Narcissists go undetected for a long time because they can put on the victim mask and convince others they are being abused and they are good at it &#8211; until they are caught on video, just like my doctors told me to do, and yeah I did it for that reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The court will commit her. They have committed her before. She is on Mental Disability for a reason.<br>I tell everyone, she knows it too &#8211; I won&#8217;t let you screw me over, just won&#8217;t let it happen. She has screwed me over for the last time.  I&#8217;ve heard two different stories about this, and honestly I don&#8217;t care which is true; either she did, or she did not but tried to have an affair with Jose at the meat market &#8211; I even told her she would fuck him (I could tell).  Then she starts this discard cycle with this new guy she has been working for at least 2 years, about the time that Jose dumped her &#8211; and that tells me she never stopped doing this, she has been doing it since we moved here.  Then the 36 years of her doing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The point of all this legal stuff is just that, put her away; I tried to protect her for years, wasted my life doing it, but no more.   When I look in the mirror about how wore down I am and think how I got this way.  That day on the back porch where you talk about &#8220;me being in my cave&#8221; &#8211; that you created for me, and kept me in while you did whatever you wanted.  You made me a prisoner in my own life and the bars were my love for you &#8211; its time for me to return that favor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I know I will never see a day of that back &#8211; but knowing you are going to lose the rest of your days somehow consoles me.  The IRS is still investigating, the SSA is still investigating, and now I&#8217;ve set up two cases against you.  And yes, I&#8217;m using your narcissism against you.   Chess and Court, same game.  I know you can&#8217;t make some decisions because of your mental disorder and I&#8217;m using that against you &#8211;  you will seal your own fate because of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You enablers will still scream that I tricked the system or other crazy things and she didn&#8217;t deserve it &#8211; \/shrug &#8211; see the first paragraph, I never expected your programming to change.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My ex has beat the shit out of me in the court of public opinion (facebook &amp; such) for at least 11 years now. 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