My ex has beat the shit out of me in the court of public opinion (facebook & such) for at least 11 years now. She has been on there for years (her own words) telling everyone I abused her, its all a lie and I have video to prove it – but in the court of public opinion, and this is quoting a few of them “I won’t watch that video its a trick” or other such bullshit. Then a litany of bleeding-heart bullshit that she has people duped about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I know, nothing I can do about stupid.
However.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In a court of law opinion does not matter unless you are an expert.
I threw a monkey wrench into the divorce for a reason.
What matters is that video, and text messages. Since it has been established that she planned to murder me, I will force a mental evaluation and they will watch all that video evidence. I’ve already had 6 or 8 professionals watch it, not including the ones with the police department. Every one of them have stated she is a Sociopath (Narcissist). Add in the murder thing and that makes her a danger. Lets ignore all that other criminal stuff I know about, so she is a continuing danger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Her claim is that I triggered her to “act like a narcissist on video because it is a trauma response” and that is total bullshit. A trauma response is what you see me do in the video; lashing out, etc. A narcissist (Sociopath) is always a narcissist, you can’t push anyone to act like that, its hardwired. Narcissists go undetected for a long time because they can put on the victim mask and convince others they are being abused and they are good at it – until they are caught on video, just like my doctors told me to do, and yeah I did it for that reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The court will commit her. They have committed her before. She is on Mental Disability for a reason.
I tell everyone, she knows it too – I won’t let you screw me over, just won’t let it happen. She has screwed me over for the last time. I’ve heard two different stories about this, and honestly I don’t care which is true; either she did, or she did not but tried to have an affair with Jose at the meat market – I even told her she would fuck him (I could tell). Then she starts this discard cycle with this new guy she has been working for at least 2 years, about the time that Jose dumped her – and that tells me she never stopped doing this, she has been doing it since we moved here. Then the 36 years of her doing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The point of all this legal stuff is just that, put her away; I tried to protect her for years, wasted my life doing it, but no more. When I look in the mirror about how wore down I am and think how I got this way. That day on the back porch where you talk about “me being in my cave” – that you created for me, and kept me in while you did whatever you wanted. You made me a prisoner in my own life and the bars were my love for you – its time for me to return that favor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I know I will never see a day of that back – but knowing you are going to lose the rest of your days somehow consoles me. The IRS is still investigating, the SSA is still investigating, and now I’ve set up two cases against you. And yes, I’m using your narcissism against you. Chess and Court, same game. I know you can’t make some decisions because of your mental disorder and I’m using that against you – you will seal your own fate because of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You enablers will still scream that I tricked the system or other crazy things and she didn’t deserve it – \/shrug – see the first paragraph, I never expected your programming to change.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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