{"id":1773,"date":"2024-01-16T14:48:41","date_gmt":"2024-01-16T20:48:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?p=1773"},"modified":"2024-01-16T14:48:43","modified_gmt":"2024-01-16T20:48:43","slug":"i-tried-to-just-let-it-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/?p=1773","title":{"rendered":"I tried to just let it go&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I really did try to just let it go, no one who is my friend snoops her page (If they do I don&#8217;t know about it because I don&#8217;t hear from them on it) &#8211; but I still have her ex-friends, or still on her friends list telling me the crazy shit she is talking.  Yes that gets around, Yes I hear it from others too.   In the past it has never changed, our room-mates would think the worst of me and then after living with us find out it was all a lie by her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Same thing now with her ex-friends, figuring out she is lying about everything.  While she is still snooping my page to find out what I&#8217;m up to, she even has some of her friends in my social groups (if they report back to her or not I don&#8217;t care).<br>Nothing I post online where anyone but my few trusted friends can see it is real, it is all misdirection for her and her stooges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/419716309_7697903306905103_4422399920673198053_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1774\" srcset=\"https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/419716309_7697903306905103_4422399920673198053_n.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/419716309_7697903306905103_4422399920673198053_n-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/taramcfadden.me\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/419716309_7697903306905103_4422399920673198053_n-768x384.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Since she just keeps it up and won&#8217;t get on with her &#8220;happy life with people who love me&#8221; &#8211; then I am going to shut her up by going ahead with the slander suit and mental health warrant; at least that may shut her up for a while.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yes that is also why nothing has been posted here &#8211; I&#8217;ve honestly been putting some time in talking to some very intelligent women as I&#8217;ve realized that is something I miss a lot and have not experienced in a very long time.  I think I can spare the time for the suit though.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I really did try to just let it go, no one who is my friend snoops her page (If they do I don&#8217;t know about it because I don&#8217;t hear from them on it) &#8211; but I still have her ex-friends, or still on her friends list telling me the crazy shit she is talking. 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