“You can tell someone is well on their way to healing when they stop telling the story, when they stop talking about it” – Richard Grannon.
Yes, this is why there have been no postings; you don’t matter to me anymore, I’m well on my way to being healed from your abuse and the story is done.
Yes Tara, I’m VERY much done with you and your lies, that is why I divorced YOU (for real this time) and then kicked you out when you did exactly what I knew you would do (and I have you on video doing it). I get my information from a friend of yours that knows you are a pathological liar, until you started messing around with Dana in September to December we called each other husband and wife – I’ve even posted the text messages about it. It was 2 months after you started in with Dana, around February when you started telling everyone we were separated, I’m making that date when you cut me off from all emotional support (just like you admitted on video too) – that is what Narcissist do.
We lived separately since Boyd when you planned to kill me, and worked with Suzanne to take my name off that property down there (manipulated her to think I was abusing you – until she saw through your lies and kicked you out right behind me.) – And yes, I posted those screen shots between you and her too, so the only lie there is you (again).
Yes we were legally separated then, and I was trying to divorce you (I posted those screen shots and memories from facebook too). That is when I grew tired of your abuse of me behind closed doors, and your disgusting habits (that you told others you did on purpose to disgust me), more-so the way you lived in filth – and yes I posted pictures of how you live, all the cat-shit everywhere, etc.
That friend of yours read the text messages, not the doctored ones you tell them about. They watched the videos of how you really treated me when no one was looking. I’ve got friends too, a few of them even told me, after I divorced you; why they quit visiting us on Scripture street – how filthy the house was.
You are still delusional – that is a base component of NPD; and until July of last year I knew nothing about that mental illness – now I know way more than I ever wanted to know.
That is also why you married Dana – your text messages say it, and I have you on video saying it – “I needed someone to take care of me.” – “I only had sex with you because I had no where else to go” – so nothing much has changed in your life has it.
I know you can delude yourself, that is what narcissists have to do in order to cope in the world.
You knew when I did all this that I was finally done with you. There was no chance of you having your little affair and then me taking you back again; like I did way too many times.
So you had to find yourself a place to live and convince yourself of whatever.
Speaking of whatever, exactly whatever. You don’t matter to me anymore. There have been no real postings on that website for a reason “You know someone has healed, or is well on their way to healing from narcissistic abuse when they stop telling the story.” (R. Grannon – yeah I paid for the program because of your abuse, and thank the spirits I did. I stopped telling the story.
I use my experience with you to help others now, to help them understand, to get out of the relationships, etc.
It is a DAMMED GOOD FEELING – to be free from you, to turn that shit of a life and hell you put me through into a positive thing, helping others see how evil and nasty people like you can be.
I meant to post something like this on the website, saying I’m so over it I’m done talking about it – and I’ve just been too busy living a real life now, that it wasn’t that important.
I guess this message will serve the same results.
So why did this even get posted? If she don’t matter anymore??
Simple – my reputation does. Someone questioned the fact of how I found out about the marriage and about her actually getting married – narcissists are great at casting doubt, and they doubted me about this. (the link to the county records for her marriage license is posted).
Also, it helps show that she is a narcissist – for all the claims of abuse she would still be, like me, in the healing process and not ready for a relationship – much less getting married to the guy she had been grooming for 2 years (according to a few of her ex-friends, note ex because they saw her for what she really was / is).
Afterall no one falls in love faster than a narcissist who needs a place to stay (they cannot be alone)