The Boyd property, discard, recycle

I thought I had created a page detailing what happened at the Boyd property, and I was wrong – just never enough time. Today it is cold and I don’t feel like doing anything else, so here we are. (For details how she tried to do the exact same thing at the Krum property click here)

Backstory:

We moved to the Boyd property with Suzanne Chappell because our attempt to buy a house fell through, our credit sucked, etc. The original deal (and I have copies of the agreement around here somewhere) was that we would care for the property & animals and when Suzanne passed away we would inherit the property. Sounded like a good deal at the time so we agreed.

The work

Tara and I both moved into the barndominium there, and I started doing work for Suzanne on top of my remodeling business I had going. First thing I did was replace the main electrical distribution panel, meter base, etc. Her electrician wanted $1,800 to do that job (this becomes important later). The next big job was to use my contacts, drain and then rebuild the whole septic system. Her septic guy wanted $11,000 to do that job. The next big job was to install central heat and air to the home (it had space heaters and window units). She wanted to price shop the job (and I think was in doubt that I could do that work). One contractor wanted $25,000 the other wanted $32,000 for the job (from memory). Needless to say I did all the work, including creating the HVAC closet, ducts, etc. Intermixed in all of that was mowing the property, installing 5 acres of fence (she adopted some goats, and tried to take the neighbors donkey), lots of electrical repair. (she paid for all the materials)

Now on the barndominium, I installed 2 windows (were not there before) rewired all the electric, installed a grey septic system, cabinets, finished out the drywall, painted, insulated the place, and then closed up the garage portion, put in the ceiling, took out all the old electrical and updated (there was no service panel, just wire nuts on a lead line), installed a huge bay window (4 windows, double hung) with bench storage. I paid for all those materials, around $17,000 from memory.

Tara’s job was to cook, clean, run errands, take care of animals, etc.

Trouble starts

Tara has always had a drug problem, I was told she was doing drugs with the people behind us on Scripture (Shannon Tutt – I know she was using meth back there, and so were others). I do know she was getting shipments of drugs from a girl in California named Jenny Parker; per our scripture agreement I could not stop that or say anything. (The Scripture agreement – was that Tara had to be in control)

When we got to Boyd I could say something however and I did, this made her mad. At that point Tara started overdosing on different medications, was still getting drugs from the California girl, and from her friends in Colorado too. While at the dinner table talking to Suzanne, at least once, Tara was cooking and passed out standing up at the stove; almost burning herself. Suzanne told her at this point that she had to stop doing drugs or she had to move. I told Tara I was not going to defend her or move because I don’t and never have approved of her drug use.

The abuse from Scripture street followed us there to Boyd. In private she was a horrible person, our house was filthy and with Suzanne around she started collecting huge amounts of cats. You could not walk through our living space it was so junked out and messy. It was at this point that a plan was hatched to have Tara move into a separate living space – because – at that time the barndominium was not insulated, only had 1 door and 2 windows, no fans, concrete floor, etc. (it was like living in a garage). So she moved into the spare room up in Suzanne’s house, and later into an RV that I remodeled for her.

(Once she was out I created a very nice living space)

The Manipulation Starts

Once she had Suzanne all to herself she convinced her (Suzanne) that I was abusing her (Tara). She was also very good about triggering me in front of her.

It was at this point that Suzanne Chappell broke her agreement with me (though I didn’t know it at the time) and she removed my name from the property. The plan was to wait until I had finished the barndominium and then evict me so Tara could live there. The mistake was made as Suzanne was originally manipulated to change the insurance policy to both our names (which I agreed to, I didn’t know about the property changes at that point). Tara then convinced her to push me to give her (Tara) full ownership of the property – and I refused.

Now the divorce starts and I completely agree to the whole thing. Tara and Suzanne use the police to inventory all my property because ‘she is going to divorce me and get half of it’ (so she told the police, it was a property inspection for destruction of property) and police would NOT let them actually search but they tried. Tara told the police that it was about the divorce right in front of me, so I reminded her that the IRS Debt goes with the claim and I would file and update into the IRS case and she was on her own – good luck.

Unlike Tara – I have proof of this.

Unlike Tara I have full proof that this is what happened. Tara manipulated Suzanne to believe I abused her. It was and is a complete lie – and – Suzanne eventually figured this out and was going to evict Tara – but – Tara had nowhere to go so she recycled me.

Tara knew I was dating and so just like the past she was calling the police on me for “driving drunk” and “speeding” and other crazy things, including “he is going to kill me”
This is normal NPD behavior known as “Guilt Reflection” (Narcissists will accuse you of the things they have done or plan on doing) as it was her that planned to kill me:

It was Tara who wanted full control of everything, most important was the life insurance to take my brothers name off (and put Suzanne’s name on it?). (I refused to give her full control)

Tara knew she was nuts and manipulated Suzanne to remove my name from the property – thus breaking our deal (the deal that I had with her for all the work) – I eventually found out and stopped doing the work:

Then against all odds Suzanne figured out she had been manipulated, there was no abuse, it was all about Tara lying to her to get control of the property, get rid of me (she no longer needed me to support her, she found a new sucker to do that) and she was going to evict Tara:

So Tara begged me to save her (Narcissistic Recycle – though I didn’t know what that meant back then)

This memory happened to pop up on facebook this morning; back when I tried to divorce her: