Gaslighting – this is how she fools you

Gaslighting is a technique that fools you into thinking or believing something that is not true. In this example Tara McFadden employs a technique that jumbles the information in such a way that your brain doesn’t get a chance to question the facts. Its called Narcissistic Word Salad. This is a very manipulative tactic.

This is the whole text message unedited – for reference. Read all the way through it one time and then I will break down how she just fooled your brain into thinking things that were not true.

First – a “Trauma Response” does NOT make you act like a narcissist. A “Trauma Response” is: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn – not gaslight and D.A.R.V.O.

Here is the “repeated lie” – as shown on this site again and again there was no abuse, she is lying about it and she has repeated the lie so long that too many of you believe it. Ask her for any evidence other than her word and see how fast you get attacked and or blocked.

Now, the first thing she does is claim something that is not true and then hits you with this horror story of abuse so your brain will skip right over that she lied, she does not have video. Because I’ve now took out the propaganda, your brain can figure it out.

Now the horror story – it is MUCH easier to watch the video above; I have cameras all over this property, every square inch is covered. If I had beat her, she bruises easy, she would have been a solid bruise. It would also have been on video. She will claim “Oh, I loved him then so I didn’t call, he had me trauma bonded” (or some other distraction. Its bullshit. Next is the choking, you don’t laugh when being choked no matter who you claim to be. In all reality this is something she created out of something else; we may have had a fight yeah, I’ve even pushed her out of the way before, pinned her, hit her, etc. I’m not proud that I let that happen, but yes its happened. Since we moved here to the Krum property I do not remember an actual physical altercation. Not that such a claim will slow her down.