Pathological liar
The rule is a narcissist knows no limits, they know no rules, and there is no depth they won’t sink to “to win.”
Tara McFadden unblocked her sister and then contacted her trying to “hoover” her back to “her side” etc. Gail has read this stuff, watched my videos etc and knows how all this works now, and basiclly shut Tara down by asking for things, like the text messages she is supposed to have that shows how mean I am to her, you know, the ones like:
Do you want me to help you today” – “No you don’t have the skill set needed to help” Yes, she does not know a thing about electrical work, plumbing, trim work, tape and bedding, etc. So unless I have a mundane job like cleaning up, then no you can’t help.
Then of course over 1/2 the time she cried that she was not strong enough to pick up this, or move that, etc. So that reduced what she could do down to pick up trash and carry it out; which she complained about because now I only use her for grunt work. (wonder why).
In any case I did a video about all her text message lies, Gail asked for stuff she said then she can’t find (because it does not exist to start with)
This is several text messages from her to her sister, as well as some to me and ones from her old phone that show she is a pathological liar.
The first censored message is actually from 2014 though I typo’ed it as 2015 – where she is talking to Suzanne Chappell about me being a narcissist. The one above it is where she claims (falsely) that she only learned about Narcissism in February of 2023. Then in the very next message she tells her sister she has a fake account that she posts personal information about her abusive narcissistic husband, and has for years. Then there are 2 messages that she cut me off from sex on her doctors orders (suggestion) 6 to 8 months ago – about 3 months before she started seeing the doctor.
In simple translation, Tara has used online forums to build a picture of a narcissist and then painted that picture that she is the victim of abuse (see delusions) that never actually happened; IE: she made it all up.
Also notice that her sister calls her out on it (see Lies about her friends).
Gail has stated that is not how things happened, and that the abuse for her was real. Broken bones, stitches, hospital visits – not made-up claims she was beaten like Tara has done.
Guilt Shaming – about the video footage, more false claims of abuse.
Guilt shaming – you should be smart enough to know (Gail is smart enough to look at ALL the evidence, IE: Your word against my text and video – why do you think she called you a liar)
Smear Campaign – a smear campaign involves LIES (like Tara McFadden has told, not video evidence that you are lying – keep up the gaslighting little narc, video does not lie) – no one was “triggered” to act like that in front of the camera, that is how you acted all the time around here, if not worse.
“Friends witnessed a lot” I know some that have witnessed you trigger me, like the headphone thing; once I explained it to them they fully understood why I went off on you, and why you wore them against my wishes – more so to argue with me over them for half an hour. (and then got your ass evicted too)
Lets also not mention that one friend of yours “that witnessed this go on for years” lived beside us for 1 year, on Scripture, while doing METH and lost custody of her kids too. So she is as much of a liar as you are, in fact that is the first time I ever met her, so she didn’t see anything – she is just an enabler that is parroting what you tell her to say. How many times has she been to our homes? Lived beside us on Scripture for about a year, and has visited us here in Krum 2 times. (Keep gaslighting)
Tara is Delusional, and a narcissist – any criticism of a narcissist is “verbal abuse” in their own mind; “Please close the door” – “Stop abusing me!” – see the video about Katrinka who abused her and constantly argued with her over which school had 9th grade.
Gaslighting – the conversation on the back porch was “nice’ by her standard because I refused to argue with her, and when she brough up bullshit stories; like me being abused as a child, I just ignored her and went on (therefore she thought she ‘won’ the argument, etc) This is one of the reasons she wasn’t happy here, because I refused to engage in toxic behavior with her over the last few years and that will starve a narcissist to death.
My first reaction was violence – yeah my mother heard that story and wiggled it out of you that you hit me first, I think she even told you that if you didn’t want to get hit then stop hitting me. Typical though, the narcissist skips those little facts.
This is her 2nd account – we laughed at her claims (before Gail blocked her) that “I’m getting off facebook so I can heal” – later in the texts she admits to having another account where she has posted about me being a narcissist for years, and about this divorce too — opps — so much for those false claims of clean hands there /lol – don’t worry, we were not fooled to start with. You’re a facebook junky.
Back on Scripture street, and in Boyd she had gone militant vegan – and if you ate meat you were a murderer. “Her toxic environment” was created by calling me a murderer and being forced to cook meat for me, because I was not allowed in the kitchen – etc. You can also add in these other toxic enablers of hers giving her “marriage advice” while getting divorced from their husbands.
Again, the false abuse claim – already debunked
“why I didn’t just leave” – is because I would keep taking you back and paying your bills, while putting up with your shit – until you tried to violate my last boundaries.
Gaslighting – already debunked, she started the fight so she can claim she is a victim, same way she pushed me to divorce her, its a win-win for her. If I divorce her she a victim of whatever, and if I don’t then I lose that much more power against her.
More false claims of abuse in an attempt to cover up that the Tara on those videos and in those text messages, including these, is the real Tara – my toxic abuser of 36 years, and I’m waking up to that and exposing you for it.
All of the rest of those claims are also already debunked, look at the reason she blocked Katrinka.
“don’t know how to do anything … no offense but you don’t have the skill set to do just about anything.”
Yeap almost exactly what I said, sure did. “I’m doing electric today, you don’t have the skill set to help me with that.” – “I’m setting a toilet today” — Go ahead, ask her which of the 3 wires is HOT on a 110v plug. Which 2 of the 4 wires are hot on a 220v plug. Where and how do you install a backcheck vent for a sink drain. Why do you use a S trap now, and how do you install it.
ALSO NOTE: she started counseling in February after her hospital visit – Okay – tell me why you cut me off from sex in December then……. We’ll wait.
Then after waiting DAYS and DAYS for you to help me with the cabinets that I did need help with, but you were at Barbera’s or Hillary’s or wherever you were because you were not here I just had to do it alone.
So again – your lies were debunked before you told them, I had already posted all these text messages.
“That is when I was educated on Narcissism” – Really? So those text messages I have between you and Suzanne from 2015 calling me a narcissist is fake? (Had to delete personal info)
Also see her own text message a few down, where she admits she has a 3rd account where she posts all about her “Narcissistic Abuse and have been for quiet some time” – IE: just more lies by the little narc.
More Narcissistic gaslighting…
The “respectful conversation” she is referring to is how I treated her around here for the last 3 or so years. I simply refused to engage her in any argument, ignored her false claims (like me being abused as a child, or coming from a broken home). I did not react with ‘violence’ I was taught to do that by her, its from her family upbringing. I didn’t admit it, you can even see on the video I just shake my head and wipe my face, because I’m not going to argue with her about her delusions (again).
Our “Divorce Agreement” was violated 2 hours after it was made public, see this video.
Then the next day when she wore headphones in my house – yes my house my rules, she didn’t own headphones, she borrowed them – and she knew it was a hot-button issue with me and that is why she did it. Then, unlike an adult and just complying with my rules, she wants to argue about it.
She is right, and just like it says in the Dear Jane letter, after 38 years and she is still doing today what she did to me all 38 years; sexual manipulation and infidelity – Yes I want a divorce (she thought was a bluff).
All of this “energy” is because you sent me to Dr’s who have watched these videos of you and told me you are a Sociopathic Narcissist and have been abusing me for years; and now I am waking up to it – and I’m mad as fuck. I gave that marriage everything I had and you did nothing but abuse me. That is why this website exists.
Notice how she pulls the old “Gaslight lie” – ” As far as the cheating we both cheated and that is a fact. I can’t 100% say he was cheating..” yeah, because I wasn’t. If Les Coke were alive he would tell you, and Don Louden is alive and can tell you, I was working with them on a business plan to open a pep-boys, the plan failed /shrug, that happens.
More gaslighting – “I can only assume he was doing something more fun than hanging out with his wife” – “..because I had to get up and go to work in the morning so I could not stay out…” – IE: she was sleeping.
“he had an affair with that 16 year old” – she forgets to mention that we broke up and separated 3 days before that happened; the day she got out from INVOLENTARY MENTAL EVALUATION – from beating her own face in and claiming I did it. I’m going to go pay for that arrest record and post it. I told you don’t come back when they let you out. I think she also threatened to kill that girl, I know she was mad as hell that I could do better, and did it fast (all the while it was Hank’s brother who was sniffing that dog in heat).
More gaslighting about abuse – “abuse” to a narcissist is not agreeing with them, or any criticism, see posts above about it.
Another bullshit story about me beating her up. Never happened, where is the police report, where is the bruises, where is the photos? She keeps making these allegations without a shred of evidence, misinterpreted text messages, chopped up videos. Jesus now you see why I divorced you – I’m tired of this bullshit.
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“I came crawling back to her” – yeah right. Lets talk about the guy from Wendy’s you slept with, who then pooped in front of you and how disgusted you were. You found some reason for me to come over to your apartment, I didn’t want to go upstairs because I knew your brother was there – but you convinced me somehow. Then I get to meet him (trying to rub it in my face), you told your brother some stupid stuff and started a fight. Next thing I know you want to go back with me to my place, have lots of great sex because we are going to get back together. (Yeah, I hoovered you…. /smh)
All these terrible things I’m posting are verified by video and text messages – you have lied about me online for years, payback is a bitch.
More gaslighting – there is no cure for narcissism, you are not healing you are using these things as a crutch to try and hide what you are.
“a shotgun was shoved in my brother’s face.” – you forget to tell the whole story, again – look I’m surprised. Your brother just threatened to rob me blind when I was gone from the house, where we all lived at the time, and I told him I would blow his head off if he did it. Then, later, he broke into my car and stole all my tools out of the trunk – and we only know that happened because the kid down the street told me it was him that did it. (Seems your family has theft problems)
Except, as quoted above – you have been posting that stuff from your other (shadow) account that you use to post about your narcissistic husband who abuses you – clean hands my ass.
Oh, and Gail is still waiting on all those texts that say mean things to you from me – yeap, still waiting…
The rest of the text conversation – without comment:
Yeah, her sister called her out as the liar she is – not everyone is an idiot.
I told her I did not want her to stay there over the weekend and yes she did it anyway – because my rules do not apply to her, see all the links above.
When Gail asked her about all the nasty text messages – “this is a newer phone its not going to go back particularly far.” IE: More gaslighting.
