She thought the divorce was a bluff

Yeap, this is the video where she admits it.

Tara McFadden thought that the “divorce” was a bluff by me, and this is a common tactic of a Narcissist (Narcissist divorce bluffs). Narcissist will bluff about divorce, and the moment you hit the last step of the house they will downgrade you to break your self-esteem about being able to find anyone else, anyone as pretty as them, good in the sack, or whatever they can do. This is to establish dominance, to ‘win’, lower your self-esteem and tear down your barriers a little more.

In this video you will see that Tara thought that since she had another 5 months, she could use this “bluff” along with her Narcissistic Tools (love bombing, seduction, etc) to negotiate an even better position for herself by tearing down more of my (last) barriers.

The video and her actions (plus the look on her face when she figures out this is not some bluff, and she just royally fucked up.

Needless to say she was very wrong about the bluff (I told her never cut me off from sex, and that is what she decided to do, because that would be the last straw). Now she can worry about her own shit, and I can find someone who is not fake, and may return my emotions.