Flying Monkeys (Narcissistic Enablers) is well known, not only for who and what they are, but also how they act on behalf of their masters (in this case Tara Fletcher). They normally have low intelligence, low self-esteem, lack critical thinking skills etc. This allows them to be easily manipulated, and as I’ve documented on this site that makes them dangerous – in part because the Narcissist risks nothing while the “Flying Monkey” does their bidding (and risks jail).
Now, I’ve been contacted by a lot of these people on behalf of the ex. Most are smart enough to hide who they really are, etc. Typical cowards /shrug. This one however didn’t hide who they are.
I’ve met this woman one time, she lived with a guy I knew for several years. Now, I heard a lot about her through my ex (Tara) – and I learned long ago to half ignore her. What I got from Tara (after she met this gal) is that she “is a retard” or “she is slow” and other negative remarks that way.
After the messages I got from Shibley I can say she is as crazy as my ex (as the screen shots will show).
What is a Flying Monkey:
First understanding what a flying monkey is in more detail is key to understanding the messages she sent to me. As shown in her responses below Hannah believes that Tara is fully justified in trying to kill me – in simple terms she completely ignores reality that she does not agree with.
Signs Someone Is a Flying Monkey
“It’s often difficult to recognize a flying monkey,” explains Lauren Kerwin, PhD, licensed clinical psychologist, “as they may seem like normal people who are simply taking sides in a disagreement or conflict”. Sometimes, flying monkeys will have conditions or disorders that make them more susceptible. However, Dr. Kerwin outlines a few key tell-tale signs to look out for:
- They side with the narcissist no matter the situation or evidence presented to them
- They spread gossip or rumors about you
- They gaslight or manipulate you
- They dismiss or trivialize your feelings
- They pass on information about you to help the narcissist harass you
Quoting from Source: “Narcissists and Flying Monkeys”
“Flying monkeys get caught up in a narcissist’s plan — often to damage the life of another person. The narcissist may use their flying monkeys as piggy in the middle, carrying information from party to party. The flying monkey may use gaslighting tactics, open aggression, and guilt-tripping in order to make another person feel bad and weak, whilst shoring up the narcissist.”
Source: Are you a Narcissist’s Flying Monkey?
“Flying monkeys usually do not ask for cold, hard facts when doing the dirty work for a narcissist, they take what they say at face value and perpetuate the lies, the smear campaign…the whole thing that victims of narcissistic abuse have to endure. a flying monkey is not even aware they are unknowing participants in the narcissist’s quest to destroy you. Some, much like a narcissist, truly believe the lies they have been fed.
So it doesn’t really matter if they are willing are unwilling participants…they are not good people. When deciding to go no contact, you must cut all ties with anyone associated with the narcissist. This might seem difficult, at first, but always remember…’birds of a feather flock together.’ Narcissists feel more at home with people that at best turn a blind eye to their toxic behavior, and at worst are equally as toxic.”
Source: A Narcissist’s Flying Monkeys.
I’ve gotten random messages from the ex’s flying monkeys over the last year, I should have saved and posted some of them but I didn’t. Until now.
The messages this woman sent me shows how much of a lunatic she is, she really reminds me of what my ex-wife used to act like.
As I’ve said, I never spoke more than 10 words to this woman, I met her one time with Dom (she lived with him for years) and I’ve never contacted her in any way.
However, Hannah thinks that I’ve been writing her letters through her 3rd eye energy – yeah, you can’t make up that kind of fucking crazy. She even states that I’ve been “communicating with me in a bad way.” I guess through this 3rd eye energy bullshit.
Of course there are random ass crazy statements that to me, and the police, make absolutely no sense – you can read the unedited messages for yourself and try to make sense of it (good luck).
I never replied to her until after I was told to do so by Officer Houston with the Wise County Sheriff’s office – to tell her to stop contacting me.
Of course I included the screen shot of my ex’s old phone where she planned to kill me:
Hannah’s response of course is in line with being a typical flying monkey – she fully justifies the multiple times that Tara tried to kill me (well documented on this site).
This is the report # for Harassment / Stalking / Terroristic Threat against Hannah Shibley:
I was told by my therapists (3 told me) that this would happen. When you reach a point where you are “healed” and “they don’t matter anymore” they (the NPD) goes nuts and the real smear campaign starts. It will of course drum up these nut-jobs who believe Tara no matter how much evidence exists against her; in fact just like those that think the earth is flat the more evidence against her the more they are convinced that the NPD is the victim (don’t ask me, but it somehow makes sense to them)
One other thing I did today was to remove anyone on my friends list that is still in contact with the ex. Yeah, the therapists told me a year ago to do this. First that they are in denial about the abuse I’ve endured which causes me problems (and it does) and second that they will mention things, even if just casually, that will add to my problems.
In the end most people figure Tara out.
Some do not, and some just don’t care – I don’t need those people in my life, so I made that choice.