I was just talking tonight with a NPD survivor and they still can’t figure it out – a NPD (Like Tara) lives inside a delusional world. Facts do not matter to them, dates don’t matter – even though all this is well documented that she is completely lying – to her it does not matter, the world is wrong and she will keep telling herself that and anyone that disagrees with her is also wrong and her enemy (its called splitting, its how a NPD sees the world ( https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/peaceful-parenting/202307/a-narcissists-freakiest-weapon-delusional-amnesia )
This is why I didn’t take her to court; can I prove every bit of this – yes, without a problem. They would take her, lock her up for a while, medicate her to a zombie and then just turn her loose again; and nothing would change in the end.
The timeline of what happened between us is well documented.
She has openly admitted in text messages between myself and her sister, as well as on video why this divorce happened. She expected to live here, not help with anything, including housework and work around the property – not pay anything towards bills, or even have sex with me and in the end have this property and a $250K payout too.
We see how that worked out for her didn’t we.
We filed a mutual agreement of divorce in July of 2023, I had to amend that agreement July 11th. In August 2023 she added Dana Fletcher to my insurance policy – and I have screen shots of his name on my policy. Despite her delusions, and maybe her followers too, when you are married that information is SHARED until you are divorced; anyone can look at the paperwork its all public record, we were NOT divorced until DECEMBER of 2023. This is because I also discovered her plot to murder me, and yes I filed charges. I did so to make sure that the insurance policy went away, and I combined that with a mental health hearing – THAT is why it went away, she knows if she stepped into that court she was going to the rubber room again.
Despite her delusional claims – the insurance company HAD to tell me he was on my policy because she added him to the policy and we were still married -duh- but you can’t fix stupid.
Despite all these facts, easy for everyone to understand; and proof provided – to her it does not matter, and that is why I didn’t take her to court.
It would be a complete waste of my time – and if this guy is so dumb as to not see this stuff, well, not my problem and I can only imagine the hell he has instore for the rest of his life, because I lived it long enough in mine.