What would it take to let her come back

This is an interesting exercise to see what it would take to let her come back. Of course the reality of it is, knowing them as you know them now what rules would you put in place; and of course they would never accept those rules – so the exercise is complete and you know now that they would never actually work on trying to fix the relationship, just to abuse you again.

This was an exercise to show the futility of trying to rekindle the relationship, now that you know who and what they are. They will never change, there is no cure, there is no ‘getting better’ and as these videos show there is no reaching them, they justify everything.