First, someone on my friends list leaked information from my private post to her – it is okay. The things I hide I don’t post anyway, so share all you would like with her.
UPDATE:
First up – I won the bet with my friends. Back when they announced they were engaged I bet everyone she would marry him on February 14th – and she did. (LoL – Narcissistic love bombing (lets also ignore the ‘whirlwhind romance’ (as quoted here) is SO predictable)
So she was caught lying again so she changed her story that she never said she didn’t get married, just the date was wrong – lol – whatever. She has been caught lying so much that no one believes her according to at least one of her followers.
Narcissists are delusional & pathological liars. As shown on this page, and this page; quoted in brief here:
In the 2nd page; is where she uses half-truths (gaslighting) to avoid her responsibility in the circumstances (D.A.R.V.O. – see the videos of her doing it on the porch here here). As seen in her text messages she ignores she pushed me to the brink of suicide and then dared me to do it (lack of empathy) so I threatened her too. (See that is the whole story, not the edited version that makes the abuser look like the victim.)
In the second one, she attempts to rewrite what happened to her sister, right to her sisters face; and gets shut down. And then attempts to rewrite the narrative of what happened between me and her and gets shut down again because her sister has seen the WHOLE text messages, not the ones edited by Tara. Of course there are other examples of her lies too, how her timeline is all wrong from her own text messages because she tells so many lies (because she is delusional) she can’t keep them straight.
In any case to detract her followers from getting caught in the first lie, she then tells the old debunked story about abuse (there was never any abuse, she is leaving out key details just like in that text message shown above – where she hit me first, she was destroying my stuff, both, or whatever – was it bad of me to use physical violence, yes and I should have left her then – but I had no clue what a Trauma Bond was then. Certainly not a good place in my life, but I survived it. But, you won’t get the whole truth from her, I will tell you all of it, good and bad – that is accepting responsibility).
SO.. .She is claiming that she did NOT get married to Dana Fletcher (just like she never admitted, and would never admit to any of her multiple affairs, including the affair with him while we were still married – sex or not does not matter: as the bible states the affair begins in your heart) – well, she is not telling the truth.
Narcissists are pathological liars. Even though the post here from September 27th about her adding him to our insurance policy with screen shots even; she claims (falsely) that it wasn’t until October.
Here is the direct link to the Love County (Oklahoma) District Records from Marietta Oklahoma:
County Records 02/23/2024 | County Records | mariettamonitor.com
In order to get her and her new boyfriend off my insurance I had to do some paperwork, I think I posted that part too (back in September?) – in any case it was noted as “identity theft” and I have credit monitoring; when they got married it triggered an alert (I’m still not clear on how / why, and I asked them to remove it.).
This is “triangulation” – the narcissist uses this to form strong emotional bonds with their victims “see he is stalking us, I’m not lying!” that when combined with lovebombing in the seduction phase sets up the trauma bond. But hey, not my problem anymore, and I almost feel sorry for the poor sap – but not really – its what you get for fucking my wife while we were still married. I wish I could see your face and hear your heartbreak story when you catch her, if you catch her (she is well practiced at it), fucking around on you (now that she has you locked in).
