As I’ve stated elsewhere, on this site I’m very sick and tired of her lies. That is why I divorced her and I took video of it all to make sure it was clear.
Gaslighting is when you tell half the truth. The environment here was toxic, no doubt, she fails to note that she is the one that created it (see other videos here). She ranted for months about “my brother putting cat puke in her water” – of course it is a lie, I only wish I had saved it (the video). The cat puke was on top of my refrigerator, and when she opened the door it fell into her water – as a side note she was also supposed to be helping me clean this house because she couldn’t contribute here but a meager sum. But she didn’t help, she was always gone for hours a day working (and having an affair). Of course she was not helping to clean the house, and even complained about having to do things like that around here (see this video series: Facebook )
Remember she is claiming she “clawed her way out of this toxic environment” – that she caused, and thought it was all a big bluff, that I would never divorce her (get tired of it). Except that is exactly what I did – see Video
As is well documented in the text messages from her and I dating back 2 years, and posted here, as the video shows, as the witnesses come forward and expose her; she created this toxic environment and that is why I divorced her and kicked her out 3 days later when she pulled her crazy shit some more – all captured on video.
Keep on lying, I will keep on exposing you –
Narcissist don’t lie, they create alternate realities –
Why Someone With NPD Lies
Why do narcissists lie… all the time? If you confront them with proof of the lie, they will still attempt to lie their way out of it. What inspires lying?
Simply put, the NPD lies in order to inflate his or her own self-esteem. Having a victim at their side who they can lie to provides them with a constant narcissistic supply, someone that fuels their sickness. When they impress their partner with their lies, they receive a rush or hit to feel better about themselves.
When the victim confronts the NPD with solid evidence of a misdeed, they will be met with lies. Not only will the NPD lie and deny it ever happened, but they are also likely to attack. This is where the gaslighting begins. They will attempt to twist the event around to become the fault of the victim.
https://elevationbehavioralhealth.com/why-do-narcissists-lie/
Because Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Psychopaths have what’s called empathy deficient disorder, meaning they don’t feel empathy in the way we would.
The truth doesn’t matter to narcissists
When they lie it doesn’t hurt them in the same way it hurts us, so many people get into relationships with pathological liars, or just can’t understand why they’re lying, because they’re trying to fit these people into the ordinary standards of what it means to be empathetic. But they don’t fit. In fact, they may not even realize they are lying because they’re not conscious of it. They actually believe they are telling the truth, even if they are not. It is because they are delusional. [and that is what makes them dangerous]
https://drjudithorloff.com/business-insider-the-psychological-reasons-why-some-people-cant-stop-lying/