I find it funny that Tara’s biggest complaint about my brother was that “he is a moocher that lives off his mother!”
Tara now lives with her new husband, in his mothers house – where he has lived with his last wife since 2009 (according to public records). In fact she has never had her own place. She will claim (falsely) that she lived on her own in “concrete city” (the low rent side of town – but she will forget to mention that she had her brother living there with her because she couldn’t afford it (and an NPD can’t be alone)) – this is one of the times I tried to divorce her.
This setup is perfect for her as all she has to do is “take over as mom” (which is a NPD’s wet dream come true). And pay a little pussy for a place to live (the same thing she admitted she did here).
When I was 17 (March 1983) I lied about my age and got a contract job with US Tel in Houston, moved and had my own apartment 2 weeks later (I stayed with my Uncle Boyd for 2 weeks). That is where I lived, alone, for just shy of 2 years before my business failed – Yeap, the oil crash (November 1984). (you pick yourself up, and you try again). All of that is public records. “B & M Communications” Harris County records.
As her family and ex-friends have figured out, Tara lied about me working for years. Gaslighting about all the details. I am the one that paid $249,000 for this property (documented) and she paid $32,000. Videos of her hoarding and claiming wasn’t responsible for doing housework (carrying out trash, etc. around here, and she shouldn’t have to do those things either) are now online. But that was the deal since she couldn’t help with the money side of things.
In any case, she will do the same thing at her new place, I am not sure how his family will deal with it (anyone who lives at his mothers house at 56 years old has some problems IMHO /shrug – two peas in a pod that is for sure). But once the new wears off, and that happens pretty fast with an NPD; she will start in with the triangulation and drama (that she needs to survive). If he is an idiot, and I suspect that is true, he will put up with it /shrug. Just funny to see how this will turn out in the end.