Hoarding & Her Responsibilities

This video requires some background information.

This video is from September 5th 2018 – 4 months after my mothers stroke, and 2 1/2 months before she passes away. Tara was supposed to be helping me with my mom – and as you will see in the video she was instead undermining me at every turn & opportunity (I wish I had a video of what she said she was going to do to that ‘crazy cat lady in back if you pass away, her ass is out of here (etc)’.

The person you see come out of the house is Carol a former renter. She couldn’t pay her rent (she took retirement too early). She asked me to reduce the rent, so I did with her promise to “pay me back” (its 2024 and I still haven’t seen my money – go figure). And then that was not enough so she wanted to get a job locally – but – had no car.

I took a car on trade for rent from another renter, and it wasn’t really road worthy; but I made it road worthy for her and let her drive it (for FREE I might add) so she could work and make up the back rent. She only worked a very short time at her ‘new job’ and complained that she didn’t have air conditioning in the car and wanted me to fix that (on my money) too. I refused (I wasn’t charging her to use my car to start with). Also note, that I had just put cheap tires on the car for her to drive.

Start of the video is Carol coming out of the house wondering what the “Ring (doorbell)” is, I moved it.

She then tells Tara that she is not in a good mood because she hit a piece of metal with the car, she couldn’t see and it is somehow my fault that she hit it because she couldn’t see it (like Tara and my pool float (she broke) she couldn’t accept responsibility for her actions).

You will see her tell Carol that “she (the cat) is probibly waiting for food, no one will buy any food for her around here” (our deal was we shared buying the food for the outdoor cats, and Tara didn’t want to spend her money for them because I would not let her take them inside her RV (with the other 42 cats she had at the time)).

Tara then explains about “our big argument today.” “He was bitching about my buckets up here, all that trash, all that trash that I put out here, I just don’t feel – I don’t feel that it is my responsibility to walk all the way out to the dumpster (as our agreement stated).” “But that is my responsibility if I want to live here” – yes, it is, that was our agreement since you couldn’t help me actually pay the bills here.
NOTE: at one point she wanted 1/2 of the money from the rentals here, and I told her I would do that IF she shared 1/2 of her social security check to the bills (almost double what she paid) AND worked every day here at this property like I did – instead of working for Doyle or those families cleaning homes – she refused – go figure)
“And if people don’t like it (responsibilities here) they can roll on down the road” – IE: Tara wanted to live here for free and do NOTHING other than open her legs from time to time and tell me to “hurry up and stick it in, I can’t have an orgasm because of my heart, just get it over-with.”

“It’s not my responsibility to carry the trash out” – “this whole property looks like this because of my nice stacked 88 buckets (of clothes) nicely stacked (taking up over 1/2 of the porch from floor to ceiling).” – Yeah, she admits to HOARDING.
These totes are 2.4 cubic feet each x 88 = 211 cubic feet of totes. That is a 10 foot U-Haul cargo truck of storage space – for clothes. These are from our Scripture home, that was stacked floor to ceiling with these clothes.

She then details out her version of our argument; and how she can tell me to blow on down the road “because he is mad at me that I put it back in his face.”
Note that putting it back in my face is her trashing out the property and not helping to clean it up; Several people have seen all the flashlights in the grass out here (she would use the .99c lights till the battery went out and then just throw it in the yard, along with several toasters, etc.)
Note the hoarding photos of how she really lived.