1) Months ago I posted all this information, I just didn’t know “who” it was. Nothing at all is a surprise here, except her catfishing this guy and using his info at this address (don’t ask me what she did his pubic info is listed here on multiple lookup’s)
2) Months ago I posted the psychology article that a Narcissist “grooms” their victim (replacement) months in advance of the discard – this is NORMAL narcissistic activity, well known that they do this. (Tara has done this to me many times in the past)
3) Again, the psychology paper that states a Narcissist will stop having sex (emotional withholding) when they are in the discard cycle and have found a replacement. She is on video and in text messages admitting that she did exactly that.
And, I posted the other psychology paper that a Narcissist will force a divorce in their relationship to make themselves look like a victim.
4) Months ago I said there was a big change in Tara around September of last year – its public info that he (the new victim) and his live in of 13 years separated back last September.
5) Months ago I posted the article – Narcissists always pick someone that is vulnerable to them – this guy lives with his parents and his dad just died about the same time he separated from that woman (the normal ploy for a narcissistic female is; oh help me escape my abusive relationship – the dumber he is the longer it will take for him to catch on, look it took me 36 years)
I don’t know all the details and I honestly don’t care.
6) They announced their relationship the day after the divorce was signed – look still no surprise. This is the “Idealization phase” of the narcissist, “oh look at how happy she is now that she is out of that other bad relationship.” No, but again that information that I posted has been ignored; this is the seduction and love bombing stage where she will start the shared fantasy and the root of the trauma bond.
Again, all information I’ve posted here – and you ignored – well established facts of how a narcissist works.
Narcissist’s New Supply and Grooming – YouTube
7) Nothing here is new, it took me 10 minutes to find this information about him from public records, including his ex, the kid, where they all live in the same house, etc.
I didn’t waste any energy or effort.
As I posted video and articles on, a Narcissist destroys your ego, they have to do that to implement the trauma bond. It took her 2 years into our relationship before she started on me /shrug. As narcs get older they get better – and she will start the devaluation process with him once she has established the shared fantasy.
In any case my ego is boosted by finding out this information; I already knew most of it anyway – and now to find out its some guy that has to live with his parents at 55 years old, and has lived with them and his girlfriend since 2009; yeah that is a perfect setup for her to get her hooks into a place to live. Big upgrade there
She did it because she did not have that control here, and she bitched out Carole Holley because she couldn’t get her name on this property. (I also have that on video. That is also when she stopped helping her). I also have her on video stating she wanted me to find a GF to have sex with, and stay married to her – so she would get this property –
That is again, well documented Narcissistic behavior, and I’ve posted it.
And again, I knew this would happen in 2015, why do you think I had the prenuptial in place? She swore she wouldn’t do this stuff again – look at where we are at.
What Is a Narcissistic Abuse Cycle & How Does It Work? (choosingtherapy.com)
Tara Lee McFadden, Dana owen fletcher (the new victim; as he will find out)