Tara McFadden runs this false narrative that she is changed / changing, getting better, healing, etc. This is impossible for a narcissist to do this. They are hardwired this way. She also runs the false narrative that she didn’t do these things to cause me to act like I did (do). This is another bold-faced lie. In all 36 years of our marriage, as proven by these posts from 11 years ago; she has never changed because she can’t.
So today a memory popped on FaceBook:
Tara McFadden was online telling her friends that I abused her all the time. As the videos & text messages here show, Tara McFadden is delusional and NO abuse happened.
She was also trying to have an affair with some guy, and because she had not got him under the spell yet, she recycled me.
Tara McFadden runs this false narrative that I am the one that came crawling back to her every time one of her affairs ended, because she is stupid and after they get tired of fucking her they dump her – and she would crawl back to me.
I was dumb enough to love her, in fact still do – I’m an empath and can’t stop, it would destroy me to even try and I will not kill that inside of me which is part of my core – I just have to admit that I cannot and will not let her back in my life (thus this website and my “scorched earth” policy towards her). And, in the future I will be well guarded.
In any case in 2012 I tried to divorce her, and again in 2015 – this time I figured out what a Narcissist is and did it.
Its a whole different thing, when your friends validate things you have proof of VS those who validate your naked claim.