Was posting cat pictures (Yeah I have cats, and yes I love the dam things; I admit it) in a cat group and someone said something to me, kind of derogatory. I DM’ed them to find out what their problem was, and low and behold they know me through one of Tara’s shadow accounts (or main account? I didn’t ask). They thought I was a narcissist.
I asked them straight up “Does a narcissist play the victim” (we all know they do) she said yes. I said okay, with that in mind can you “trigger” a victim to act like a narcissist – blame shifting, sociopathic lying, guilt avoidance, justification for acts, etc. She said NO that is not possible, you can only make them “flip out” at some trigger.
So, I pointed out where Tara is a pathological liar. Look here she is in 2012 posting about me being a narcissist and beating on her. Look here she is in 2015 doing it again. Look here she is this last month telling her sister she has been posting about me being that way for years on her shadow account. Now here she is, in the same conversation admitting she started seeing a therapist in February and learned about narcissism. Oh, and here it is in the same conversation admitting to cutting me off from all emotional support 8 months before she met her Dr who told her to do it. More like she did it, and then found and manipulated a Doctor to support her decision to do such a thing.
I then asked them to look at the pages about her sociopathic behavior; lack of empathy, etc.
So they said (by then there were 3 of them talking to me) – they are going to report her as a covert narcissist to the support group admins.
One of them stated that they suspected her of being a narcissist from the start, and that is why they brought them into the conversation to begin with. /shrug – true or not I can’t tell ya.
/shrug – she will just find another group; if they even kick her out. Some groups have a way to label them so everyone knows but that person and they get ignored (online grey-rocking) and they take themselves out then.