Typical narcissistic the rules don’t apply to me, and she keeps trying to find a way to prevent me from continuing to expose her as the malignant narcissist she is.
From a FB support group post……
What it is like dealing with a Malignant Narcissist …
My ex-wife simulated(?) an affair July 4th weekend (her 29th affair). (skipping a lot of other details) – I think her new victim wouldn’t ‘bite the bullet’ until she was divorced, and I gave her what she wanted (to claim a bigger victim prize, that I divorced her for ‘trying to heal from abuse (more delusions))
She unblocked her sister after 8 years and tried to hoover her; I started talking to her sister just after the divorce and we are good friends now. In part she admitted that she just learned about Narcissism in Feb of this year when she went to therapy, then stated she had been posting about me being a narcissist and “abusing her for years and years” from a “shadow account” on facebook (pathological lying). Her sister knows her well, didn’t buy it, and called her out on it, again. (she called her out in 2014 for the false claims that I was abusing her)
I discovered near the end of July that my ex-wife planned to murder me the last time I tried to divorce her (2014), for that insurance policy that I stupidly gave her in the divorce. Yes I filed criminal charges, but statute of limitations. (I actually have her on video and text messages talking about it and her friend calling her out on it)
On July 29th I sent her registered mail to comply with divorce conditions and remove & retract those posts calling me an abusive narcissist or I would sue her for Libel under Texas Law. She ignored that 30 day warning.
Last week I filed an appeal into the divorce, an application for mental health warrant (for not revealing she planned to murder me, so make the insurance go away), notice to the court she has not complied with divorce conditions (signing over titles to things), and she has moved in with her new boyfriend and has refused to update her address as required by law too.
She hinted that she was going to get a lawyer and fight me – Okay, I don’t care (law classes and legal clerk for a while; I know what I’m doing).
She had until the 18th, by court order, to comply. I filed the stuff the 18th, on the 19th she “surrendered” the insurance policy; and then today (21st) she sends a text message.
“Since I found out I don’t need a lawyer” – translation (and from some of her ‘less loyal’ flying monkeys) she and her new (idiot) BF tried to get a lawyer, and no one would touch it (I have hours of video of her crazy stuff posted online, as well as text messages; proving she is delusional). One even told her she is a narcissist and should comply with my demands and maybe I won’t have her committed (of course she waited too late for that now).
She also claims she has until nov 11th to send me a letter withdrawing all claims; she had until August 29th and Texas law is specific. You can’t post the retraction on the back of the unused bathroom door in the basement, behind a locked door with a sign on the front “beware the leapord” – IE: she has to post it publicly on her facebook pages (the source of the Libel).
She also stated that she wants to comply now; after I’ve already exposed her online, and I’ve already filed all the paperwork for court to have her committed (superbowl of victim status). Her new BF seems to be a complete moron in denial, started publishing “Punisher” stuff (no justice in the justice system – ignoring that evidence is what courts work on, not crying delusions of abuse and being the victim – the sex is that good /shrug)
She went into collapse right after I published a website in her name, and exposed all her lies dating back years. She is in hiding and telling everyone they don’t know the whole truth, that I’m in a narcissistic rage for exposing her – of course she is blocking and deleting people left and right; only her core monkeys are left.
(Right now she is setting up another set of accounts and getting them to ‘join her there, to get away from this maniac narcissist” /shrug)
You will never win against one of these people, and their monkeys – but you can get some satisfaction from it all; and seeing her leave this marriage with what she put into it (nothing but pain and suffering) gives me some small measure of that.