So this narc was stalking her ex in the group and ended up slipping up and the person in the group recognized something they posted. They of course cried that they were the victim, and it was the guy that was the abuser. Typical narcissistic claim.
So the guy posted some screen shots of text messages with the female (who was posing as a male in the group). She was obviously a narcissist and kept claiming that “he tricked me into saying those things” and “that is not the whole story, you are only seeing what he wants you to see” and other BS like that.
I died laughing when I read it, because this is what Tara McFadden was / is claiming to all of her flying monkeys. After they kicked the stalker out, I posted something about how similar her claims were to what Tara claims, and then about 30 others spoke up and said their narcissist ex does exactly the same thing.
There is a saying in the Narcissistic Abuse groups that there is very little difference between any one of these narcissists; and it never rings truer than to see it play out live.
Please note: I know Tara uses fake FB accounts in these narcissist groups, I got suddenly kicked out of one over it; seems that the group was already failing as many have left it anyway. In any case I do NOT have a clue what is going on over on her pages, life, etc. Since her sister said enough and she was beyond help and blocked her, I have not heard a word, and I’m okay with that.
I have, I think, found the closest thing to ‘closure’ I’m going to get from dealing with her, so I’m certainly forgetting her by inches and moving on with my life. I will note that I have had one more thing planned but that won’t happen just yet.